Abagabo ntibakwiye gukabiriza ibyo bavuga ku mibonano mpuzabitsina; ukuri ni ko kubaka urukundo

Mu kiganiro Ishya, abanyamakuru Aissa Cyiza, Cyuzuzo Jeanne d’Arc na Michèle Iradukunda (Michou) bagarutse ku ngingo ikunze kuvugisha benshi, aho baganiriye ku buryo hari abagabo bakunda gukabiriza ibyo bavuga ku mibonano mpuzabitsina n’uburyo biba bitandukanye n’ukuri kugaragara mu buzima bw’abashakanye cyangwa abakundana.

Aba banyamakuru basobanuye ko hari abantu bamwe bagira imyitwarire yo kwiyerekana nk’abafite ubushobozi budasanzwe mu mibonano mpuzabitsina, nyamara iyo bageze mu buzima busanzwe n’abo bakundana usanga ibintu bitagenda nk’uko baba babyiratana.

Bagaragaje ko gukoresha amagambo yo kwiratana cyangwa gukabiriza ubushobozi mu rwego rw’imibonano mpuzabitsina bidafasha kubaka umubano mwiza, ahubwo bishobora gutuma habaho kwitega ibintu bidashoboka, bikakurura kutanyurwa no kutizerana hagati y’abakundana.

Mu kiganiro cyabo, banagaragaje ko urukundo n’imibanire myiza bitubakira gusa ku mibonano mpuzabitsina, ahubwo bishingira cyane ku bwizerane, kubahana, kuvugana ukuri no kumenya ibyo buri wese akeneye.

Bashimangiye ko abantu bakwiye kwirinda kugendera ku nkuru cyangwa amagambo bavuga inshuti zabo cyangwa ku mbuga nkoranyambaga, kuko ubuzima bw’umuntu n’ubw’undi butaba bumeze kimwe. Icy’ingenzi ni uko abakundana baganira ku bibareba bo ubwabo aho gushingira ku byo bumva ahandi.

Aba banyamakuru banaboneyeho gusaba urubyiruko n’abubatse ingo kwirinda guha agaciro amagambo yo kwiyemera cyangwa amarushanwa ajyanye n’ubushobozi bwo mu buriri, kuko akenshi atubaka umuryango ahubwo ashobora kuwusenya.

Muri rusange, ubutumwa bwatangiwe muri iki kiganiro ni uko ukuri, ubwubahane no kuganira hagati y’abakundana ari byo bifasha kubaka umubano urambye kurusha kwiratana cyangwa gukabiriza ubushobozi umuntu yibwira ko afite.