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  • Umugore ufite amafaranga ntiyihanganira amakimbirane yo mu rugo? Iyo abaye menshi ahita yahukana

    Umugore ufite amafaranga ntiyihanganira amakimbirane yo mu rugo? Iyo abaye menshi ahita yahukana

    Hari umugani ukunze kuvugwa mu buzima bwa buri munsi ugira uti: “Iyo umugore adafite aho ajya, ashobora kwihanganira byinshi; ariko iyo amaze kugira ubushobozi bwo kwitunga, ibintu birahinduka.”

    Bamwe bavuga ko umugore ufite akazi ke, amafaranga ye cyangwa umutungo we bwite adakunda kumara igihe kinini mu rugo rurimo amakimbirane. Iyo ibibazo bikomeye, ashobora gufata icyemezo cyo gutandukana kuko aba azi ko ashobora gukomeza ubuzima bwe n’abana be atagomba gutegereza ko umugabo ari we wenyine umubonera ibimutunga.

    Ariko se koko amafaranga ni yo atuma umugore ahita ahukana?

    Iyo nta bushobozi afite, kwihangana bishobora kuba ihitamo

    Hari abagore benshi bashobora kuba batishimiye uburyo babana n’abagabo babo, ariko bagahitamo gukomeza kubana na bo kubera ko nta bushobozi bw’amafaranga bafite.

    Umugore ashobora kwibaza ati: “Nintandukana n’uyu mugabo, abana nzabatunga nte? Nzajya he? Nzakodesha nte? Nzishyura amashuri y’abana nte?”

    Ibi bibazo bishobora gutuma umuntu akomeza kuguma mu mubano utamushimisha.

    Ntabwo buri gihe bivuze ko aba akunda amakimbirane cyangwa ko yemera ibyo akorerwa. Rimwe na rimwe aba ari uko nta yandi mahitamo abona.

    Iyo atangiye kwigenga, imyumvire irahinduka

    Iyo umugore atangiye kugira amafaranga ye bwite, akazi, ubucuruzi cyangwa undi mutungo umufasha kwibeshaho, ashobora kugira ikizere kirenzeho cyo gufata ibyemezo bikomeye.

    Niba amakimbirane yo mu rugo amaze kuba menshi, ashobora gutangira gutekereza ati:

    “Nshobora kwitunga. Kuki nakomeza kubaho mu buzima bunyababaza?”

    Aha ni ho bamwe babona ko amafaranga ashobora kuba impamvu ituma umugore atongera kwihanganira ibintu yihanganiraga mbere.

    Ariko hari itandukaniro rikomeye: amafaranga ashobora gutuma umuntu abona ko ashoboye gutandukana, ariko si yo yonyine ituma ashaka gutandukana.

    Hari n’abagore bafite amafaranga bakomeza kubaka ingo zabo

    Nubwo hari abagore bahitamo gutandukana iyo bamaze kwigenga mu by’amafaranga, si ko bimeze kuri bose.

    Hari umugore ushobora kuba afite akazi ke n’amafaranga menshi ariko agakomeza kwihangana, akajya mu biganiro n’umugabo we, agashaka ubujyanama cyangwa agakora ibishoboka byose kugira ngo urugo rwe rukomeze.

    Ku rundi ruhande, hari n’umugore udafite amafaranga menshi ushobora gufata icyemezo cyo gutandukana kuko amakimbirane amaze kurenga imbibi.

    Bityo rero, ubushobozi bw’amafaranga bushobora kugira uruhare mu cyemezo, ariko ntabwo bugena buri gihe icyo umuntu azakora.

    Ikibazo gikomeye si amafaranga gusa

    Iyo abantu bavuga ngo “umugore ufite amafaranga ntihanganira umugabo”, hari ikintu bashobora kuba birengagiza.

    Umugore ashobora kwihanganira ibibazo byinshi igihe yumva ko hari urukundo, kubahana no kugira ubushake bwo gukemura ibibazo. Ariko iyo ibyo byose bishize, ndetse amakimbirane akaba asigaye ari yo yonyine aranga urugo, amafaranga ashobora kumwongerera gusa ubushobozi bwo gufata icyemezo yari asanzwe atekereza.

    Ni ukuvuga ko ikibazo atari amafaranga gusa.

    Ikibazo gishobora kuba uburyo abashakanye bafata ibibazo byabo, uko bavugana, uko bubahana n’icyo buri umwe yiteguye gukora kugira ngo urugo rukomeze.

    Umugore wigenga ntaba ashaka gusenya urugo

    Hari imyumvire ivuga ko iyo umugore amaze kubona amafaranga, ahita ashaka gutandukana n’umugabo.

    Ariko kuba umuntu ashobora kwitunga ntibivuze ko aba ashaka gusenya urugo.

    Ahubwo bishobora kumuha ikintu gikomeye: amahitamo.

    Iyo umuntu azi ko ashobora kubaho wenyine, icyemezo cyo kuguma mu mubano gishobora kuba gishingiye cyane ku rukundo, kubahana no kunyurwa, aho kuba ku gutinya ko atazabona uko abaho naramuka awuvuyemo.

    Kandi ibi bishobora no kugira uruhare ku bagabo. Umugabo ufite ubushobozi bwo kwitunga ashobora na we gufata icyemezo cyo kuva mu mubano utamuhesha amahoro.

    Ese amafaranga asenya ingo cyangwa aha abantu ubwisanzure?

    Iki ni ikibazo gikwiye gutekerezwaho.

    Amafaranga ashobora kuba intandaro y’amakimbirane mu ngo, ariko ashobora no kuba igikoresho gituma umuntu abona ubwisanzure bwo gufata icyemezo ku buzima bwe.

    Hari ababona ko umugore umaze kubona ubushobozi bw’amafaranga atongera kwihanganira byinshi.

    Abandi bakavuga ko atari amafaranga amutera gutandukana, ahubwo ko amafaranga amuha ubushobozi bwo kuva mu kibazo yari amaze igihe yihanganira.

    Kandi hagati y’izi mpande zombi, hari ikibazo gikomeye buri muryango ukwiye kwibaza:

    Ese umuntu agumana n’uwo bashakanye kubera ko amukunda, cyangwa kubera ko yumva nta handi yajya?

  • Abagabo ntibakwiye gukabiriza ibyo bavuga ku mibonano mpuzabitsina; ukuri ni ko kubaka urukundo

    Abagabo ntibakwiye gukabiriza ibyo bavuga ku mibonano mpuzabitsina; ukuri ni ko kubaka urukundo

    Mu kiganiro Ishya, abanyamakuru Aissa Cyiza, Cyuzuzo Jeanne d’Arc na Michèle Iradukunda (Michou) bagarutse ku ngingo ikunze kuvugisha benshi, aho baganiriye ku buryo hari abagabo bakunda gukabiriza ibyo bavuga ku mibonano mpuzabitsina n’uburyo biba bitandukanye n’ukuri kugaragara mu buzima bw’abashakanye cyangwa abakundana.

    Aba banyamakuru basobanuye ko hari abantu bamwe bagira imyitwarire yo kwiyerekana nk’abafite ubushobozi budasanzwe mu mibonano mpuzabitsina, nyamara iyo bageze mu buzima busanzwe n’abo bakundana usanga ibintu bitagenda nk’uko baba babyiratana.

    Bagaragaje ko gukoresha amagambo yo kwiratana cyangwa gukabiriza ubushobozi mu rwego rw’imibonano mpuzabitsina bidafasha kubaka umubano mwiza, ahubwo bishobora gutuma habaho kwitega ibintu bidashoboka, bikakurura kutanyurwa no kutizerana hagati y’abakundana.

    Mu kiganiro cyabo, banagaragaje ko urukundo n’imibanire myiza bitubakira gusa ku mibonano mpuzabitsina, ahubwo bishingira cyane ku bwizerane, kubahana, kuvugana ukuri no kumenya ibyo buri wese akeneye.

    Bashimangiye ko abantu bakwiye kwirinda kugendera ku nkuru cyangwa amagambo bavuga inshuti zabo cyangwa ku mbuga nkoranyambaga, kuko ubuzima bw’umuntu n’ubw’undi butaba bumeze kimwe. Icy’ingenzi ni uko abakundana baganira ku bibareba bo ubwabo aho gushingira ku byo bumva ahandi.

    Aba banyamakuru banaboneyeho gusaba urubyiruko n’abubatse ingo kwirinda guha agaciro amagambo yo kwiyemera cyangwa amarushanwa ajyanye n’ubushobozi bwo mu buriri, kuko akenshi atubaka umuryango ahubwo ashobora kuwusenya.

    Muri rusange, ubutumwa bwatangiwe muri iki kiganiro ni uko ukuri, ubwubahane no kuganira hagati y’abakundana ari byo bifasha kubaka umubano urambye kurusha kwiratana cyangwa gukabiriza ubushobozi umuntu yibwira ko afite.

  • Impamvu bamwe mu bagore banga kwakira abashyitsi kubera ko bumva inzu babamo isa nabi

    Impamvu bamwe mu bagore banga kwakira abashyitsi kubera ko bumva inzu babamo isa nabi

    Mu muryango nyarwanda, kwakira abashyitsi bifatwa nk’ikimenyetso cy’ubupfura n’ubuntu. Gusa hari abagore benshi bahitamo kwanga kwakira abashyitsi, atari uko batabakunda, ahubwo kubera ko bumva inzu babamo idasa neza cyangwa idafite ibikoresho bihagije. Ibi bishobora gutuma babaho bahorana ipfunwe ndetse bakirinda gusurwa.

    Abahanga mu mitekerereze ya muntu bavuga ko abantu benshi bakunda kwigereranya n’abandi. Iyo umuntu abonye inshuti cyangwa abavandimwe bafite amazu meza, ibikoresho bihenze cyangwa imitako igezweho, ashobora gutangira kumva ko iwe hadakwiye kwakira abantu. Uko kwigereranya gushobora gutuma yitakariza icyizere.

    Hari abagore bavuga ko bahora bahangayikishijwe n’ibyo abashyitsi bazatekereza nibagera mu rugo rwabo. Bashobora kwibaza niba bazaseka intebe zashaje, inkuta zikeneye gusigwa irangi cyangwa ibikoresho bike bafite. Uwo mutwaro wo gutinya gucirwa urubanza ushobora gutuma bahitamo kwanga kwakira umuntu uwo ari we wese.

    Hari n’igihe ikibazo kiba gifitanye isano n’ubukungu. Imiryango imwe iba itarabasha kubona amafaranga yo kuvugurura inzu cyangwa kugura ibikoresho bigezweho. Kubera iyo mpamvu, bamwe bumva bakwiye kubanza “gutungana” mbere yo gutumira abantu, nyamara imyaka igashira batarigeze babikora.

    Ariko se koko inzu nziza ni yo ituma umushyitsi yishima? Akenshi igisubizo ni oya. Abashyitsi benshi bashimishwa no kwakiranwa urugwiro, guhabwa amazi cyangwa icyayi no kuganirizwa neza kurusha kureba sofa ihenze cyangwa imitako yo mu rugo. Urukundo n’ubwubahane ni byo bituma uruzinduko rwibukwa neza.

    Abahanga mu buzima bwo mu mutwe banagaragaza ko guhora uhangayikishijwe n’ibyo abandi batekereza bishobora gutera umuntu guhangayika bikabije (anxiety) ndetse bikamutandukanya n’inshuti n’abavandimwe. Iyo umuntu atakigira uwo yakira cyangwa ngo asurwe, ashobora kugenda aba wenyine kandi bikagira ingaruka ku mibereho ye.

    Ni ngombwa kandi kumenya ko nta rugo rutunganye. N’abafite amazu meza cyane hari ibyo baba bifuza kongeramo cyangwa kuvugurura. Gutegereza ko ibintu byose biba bitunganye mbere yo kwakira abashyitsi bishobora gutuma umuntu atazigera abikora.

    Abagore bafite iyo myumvire bashobora gutangira buhoro buhoro, bakakira inshuti za hafi cyangwa abo mu muryango batinya gake. Ibi bishobora kubafasha kongera icyizere no kubona ko abantu benshi baza babasanga, atari ukuza gusuzuma inzu yabo.

    Mu gusoza, agaciro k’urugo ntikapimwa n’ubwiza bw’inkuta cyangwa ibikoresho birimo, ahubwo gapimwa n’urukundo, amahoro n’ubwuzu biharangwa. Umushyitsi usohotse mu rugo yumvise yakiriwe neza ahora yibuka umutima mwiza yasanze, kuruta ibikoresho yabonye. Niyo mpamvu kudaterwa ipfunwe n’imiterere y’urugo bishobora gufasha imiryango kubaka umubano mwiza no gukomeza umuco nyarwanda wo kwakirana urugwiro.

  • Impamvu abantu benshi batandukana nyuma y’imyaka itanu bashakanye

    Impamvu abantu benshi batandukana nyuma y’imyaka itanu bashakanye

    Mu myaka ya mbere y’urushako, abashakanye benshi baba bafite ibyishimo byinshi, ariko uko imyaka ishira bamwe batangira guhura n’ibibazo bituma bamwe bafata icyemezo cyo gutandukana. Abasesenguzi b’imibanire bavuga ko hafi y’imyaka itanu ishobora kuba igihe gikomeye kuko ari bwo ibibazo byari byihishe bitangira kugaragara.

    Iyo abantu bamaze igihe gito bashakanye, akenshi baba bakiri mu cyiciro cyo kumenyera ubuzima bushya, bafite urukundo rwinshi n’icyizere cy’ejo hazaza. Ariko nyuma y’imyaka runaka, cyane cyane hagati y’imyaka 3 na 7, hari abashakanye batangira kubona itandukaniro hagati y’ibyo batekerezaga mbere yo gushyingirwa n’ubuzima nyabwo babayemo.

    1. Gutakaza umwanya wo kwita ku rukundo

    Mu ntangiriro z’urushako, abantu benshi bashyira imbaraga mu gushimisha uwo bashakanye. Ariko nyuma y’imyaka mike, akazi, abana, inshingano zo mu rugo n’ibibazo by’ubuzima bishobora gutuma urukundo rudahabwa umwanya nk’uko byahoze.

    Bamwe batangira kumva ko babaye nk’ababanana gusa aho kuba abakundana.

    2. Ibibazo by’amafaranga

    Amafaranga ni imwe mu mpamvu zikomeye zitera amakimbirane mu ngo nyinshi.

    Nyuma y’imyaka mike, abashakanye bashobora guhura n’ibibazo nk’imyenda, kutumvikana ku micungire y’amafaranga, umwe yumva ko undi adatanga umusanzu uhagije cyangwa bafite intego zitandukanye ku bijyanye n’ubutunzi.

    Iyo ibi bibazo bitaganiriweho neza, bishobora kubangamira cyane umubano.

    3. Itandukaniro riba rigaragara nyuma yo kubana

    Hari abantu bashobora kumarana igihe cyo gukundana batabonye neza imico yose y’uwo bashaka kubana na we.

    Nyuma yo kubana imyaka mike, umuntu ashobora gutangira kubona imyitwarire atari azi mbere: uburyo mugenzi we akemura amakimbirane, uko afata inshingano, uko yitwara ku muryango cyangwa ku kazi.

    Ibi bishobora gutuma bamwe bumva baribeshye mu guhitamo.

    4. Ibibazo byo kubyara no kurera abana

    Mu myaka ya mbere y’urushako, imiryango myinshi iba itangiye kubona abana. Nubwo abana ari umugisha ku miryango myinshi, bashobora no kuzana impinduka zikomeye.

    Kubura ibitotsi, umunaniro, kugabana inshingano zo kurera abana no kutumvikana ku buryo bwo kubarera bishobora guteza umwuka mubi mu rugo.

    5. Kutaganira neza

    Abashakanye benshi ntibatandukana kubera ikibazo kimwe gikomeye, ahubwo kubera ibibazo bito byagiye byiyongera kubera kutaganira.

    Iyo umwe atangira kubika inzika, kutavuga ibimubabaza cyangwa kumva ko atitabwaho, intera hagati yabo ishobora kwiyongera.

    6. Kugereranya urushako n’abandi

    Imbuga nkoranyambaga nazo zishobora kugira uruhare mu gutuma bamwe batishimira urugo rwabo.

    Iyo umuntu ahora abona abandi bagaragaza ubuzima bwiza, impano n’urukundo kuri internet, ashobora gutangira kumva ko urushako rwe rudahagije, nubwo ibyo abona bitaba byuzuye ukuri.

    7. Kugabanuka kw’icyizere cyangwa ubuhemu

    Iyo icyizere hagati y’abashakanye gisenyutse kubera kubeshyana, ubuhemu cyangwa indi myitwarire ibabaza, kongera kubaka uwo mubano bishobora kuba bigoye.

    Bamwe bahitamo gutandukana aho gukomeza kubana mu makimbirane adashira.

    Ese imyaka itanu ni yo itera gutandukana?

    Oya. Imyaka itanu ubwayo si yo itera gutandukana, ahubwo ni igihe benshi baba batangiye guhura n’ibizamini by’ubuzima busanzwe nyuma y’icyiciro cy’ubukwe n’ibyishimo byo gutangira urugo.

    Abahanga mu mibanire bavuga ko ingo ziramba ari izo abantu bombi bakomeza kwiga kumva mugenzi wabo, kuganira ku bibazo hakiri kare no gushyira imbaraga mu kubaka umubano.

    Mu by’ukuri, urushako ntiruramba kubera ko abantu batagira ibibazo, ahubwo ruramba iyo bafite ubushobozi bwo kubikemura hamwe.

  • Icyo umugabo yakora igihe umugore w’isezerano yanze ko bakora imibonano mpuzabitsina

    Icyo umugabo yakora igihe umugore w’isezerano yanze ko bakora imibonano mpuzabitsina

    Mu buzima bw’abashakanye, imibonano mpuzabitsina ni kimwe mu bintu bifasha kubaka urukundo, kwizerana no gukomeza ubumwe bw’umugabo n’umugore. Ariko hari ibihe umwe mu bashakanye, cyane cyane umugore cyangwa umugabo, ashobora kutifuza gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina. Icyo gihe bisaba ubushishozi n’ibiganiro aho gukoresha igitutu cyangwa amakimbirane.

    Kwirinda gufata umwanzuro wihuse

    Iyo umugore yanze gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina, umugabo ntakwiye guhita atekereza ko atagikundwa cyangwa ko hari undi mugabo uri mu buzima bwe. Hari impamvu nyinshi zishobora gutuma umuntu adashaka gukora imibonano, zirimo:

    • Umunaniro ukabije cyangwa ibibazo by’akazi.
    • Guhangayika cyangwa kwiheba.
    • Uburwayi cyangwa ububabare.
    • Guhinduka kw’imisemburo, cyane cyane nyuma yo kubyara cyangwa mu gihe cyo gucura.
    • Kuba hari ibibazo bitarakemurwa mu mubano.

    Ganira aho kurakarira

    Abahanga mu by’imibanire bavuga ko ikintu cya mbere kigomba gukorwa ari ukuganira mu ituze. Umugabo ashobora kubaza umugore we mu bwubahane ati:

    “Hari ikibazo kiri kukubangamira? Hari icyo nakora kugira ngo wiyumve neza?”

    Ikiganiro nk’iki gituma buri wese yumva atekanye kandi kigafasha kumenya umuzi w’ikibazo.

    Wubahe uburenganzira bwa mugenzi wawe

    Nubwo mwasezeranye, nta muntu ugomba guhatirwa gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina igihe atabishaka. Kubahana no kubaha ibyiyumvo bya mugenzi wawe ni ingenzi mu kubaka urugo rukomeye.

    Abashakanye bagomba gushaka uko bumvikana aho gukoresha iterabwoba, igitutu cyangwa urugomo, kuko ibyo bishobora kurushaho kwangiza urukundo n’icyizere.

    Reba niba hari ibibazo byihishe

    Hari igihe kwanga imibonano biba ari ikimenyetso cy’ikindi kibazo. Bishobora guterwa n’uburwayi, ihungabana ryo mu mutwe, amakimbirane amaze igihe, cyangwa kuba umwe yumva atitaweho.

    Mu gihe ikibazo kimaze igihe kirekire, kujya kwa muganga cyangwa kugisha inama impuguke mu by’ubuzima bw’imyororokere cyangwa mu buzima bwo mu mutwe bishobora gufasha.

    Komeza kwereka mugenzi wawe urukundo

    Urukundo ntirugarukira ku mibonano mpuzabitsina gusa. Gufashanya mu mirimo yo mu rugo, kuganira, gusohokana, gushimirana no kwerekana ko mwita kuri mugenzi wawe bishobora kongera ubushuti no gutuma ikibazo gikemuka buhoro buhoro.

    Irinde gushakira igisubizo hanze y’urugo

    Hari abagabo bahita batekereza gushaka undi mugore cyangwa gutangira gucana inyuma igihe bahuye n’iki kibazo. Nyamara, akenshi ibi bituma ikibazo kirushaho gukomera ndetse bikangiza urugo.

    Iyo ikibazo gikomeje kumara igihe kandi ibiganiro bikaba bitagitanga umusaruro, kugana umujyanama w’abashakanye cyangwa impuguke mu mibanire ni imwe mu nzira zifasha.

    Umwanzuro

    Kwanga gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina ntibivuze buri gihe ko urukundo rwarangiye. Kenshi biba bifitanye isano n’ibibazo by’ubuzima, amarangamutima cyangwa ibibazo byo mu mubano. Icy’ingenzi ni ukuganira mu bwubahane, kumva impamvu za mugenzi wawe no gushakira hamwe igisubizo. Urugo rwubakwa n’icyizere, ubwubahane n’ubufatanye, aho kubakwa n’igitutu cyangwa amakimbirane.

  • Ese Jada Pinkett Smith yangije Willow Smith mu mutwe? Ibyo amakuru agaragaza

    Ese Jada Pinkett Smith yangije Willow Smith mu mutwe? Ibyo amakuru agaragaza

    Los Angeles – Mu myaka yashize, abantu benshi ku mbuga nkoranyambaga bakomeje kuvuga ko Jada Pinkett Smith ari we watumye umukobwa we Willow Smith agira ibibazo byo mu mutwe. Ariko se ibyo bishingiye ku bimenyetso cyangwa ni ibitekerezo by’abantu?

    Willow Smith, umukobwa wa Will Smith na Jada Pinkett Smith, yamenyekanye cyane afite imyaka 10 gusa nyuma y’indirimbo Whip My Hair yamugize icyamamare ku isi. Nyuma y’iyo ntsinzi, yaje gutangaza ko icyo gihe yahuye n’ibibazo bikomeye by’ihungabana n’agahinda.

    Mu kiganiro Red Table Talk, Willow yavuze ko nyuma y’ibitaramo byinshi, ingendo n’igitutu cyo gukomeza gukora album nshya, yumvaga atakizi uwo ari we ndetse atakibona intego y’ubuzima bwe. Yavuze ko icyo gihe yagize ibibazo bikomeye by’ubuzima bwo mu mutwe, ibintu byatunguranye no kuri nyina Jada kuko atari azi uburemere bw’ibyo umukobwa we yanyuragamo.

    Jada yemeye ko hari ibyo atabonye

    Mu bindi biganiro, Willow yavuze ko yaje kubabarira nyina nyuma yo kumva ko hari ibimenyetso by’uko yari afite anxiety Jada atigeze abona cyangwa ngo abyiteho uko bikwiye. Icyakora, Willow ntiyigeze avuga ko nyina ari we wamuteje ibyo bibazo. Ahubwo yavuze ko umuryango wabo wagiye wiga uko baganira ku bibazo by’ubuzima bwo mu mutwe mu buryo bufunguye.

    Igitutu cyo kuba icyamamare akiri umwana

    Abasesenguzi benshi bagaragaza ko ikibazo gikomeye Willow yahuye na cyo cyari igitutu cyo kuba icyamamare nkiri muto cyane.

    Hari n’igihe Willow yanze gukomeza urugendo rw’ibitaramo, ndetse nyuma yaje gusaba guhagarika ibikorwa bimwe by’umuziki kugira ngo yisubireho. Mu bihe byakurikiyeho, Will Smith ubwe yigeze kuvuga ko yasobanukiwe ko umukobwa we yari ageze aho adashoboye gukomeza uwo muvuduko.

    Ese Jada ni we wabiteye?

    Nta gihamya ihari yerekana ko Jada Pinkett Smith ari we “wangije mu mutwe” Willow Smith.

    Ahubwo amakuru ari ku mugaragaro agaragaza ko:

    • Willow yahuye n’igitutu gikomeye cyo kuba icyamamare akiri umwana.
    • Umuryango we, harimo na Jada, ntiwahise ubona uburemere bw’ibyo yarimo anyuramo.
    • Jada yemeye ko hari ibyo atabonye hakiri kare, ariko Willow yavuze ko yamubabariye kandi ko ibiganiro byabo byafashije umuryango wose kurushaho gusobanukirwa ibibazo by’ubuzima bwo mu mutwe.

    Nubwo hari abanenga uburyo Jada na Will Smith bareze abana babo cyangwa uburyo bagiye basangiza rubanda ubuzima bwabo bwite, kuvuga ko Jada ari we wangije mu mutwe Willow ni umwanzuro udashyigikiwe n’ibimenyetso biri ku mugaragaro. Ahubwo, ibibazo Willow yavuze byatewe n’uruhererekane rw’ibintu birimo igitutu cy’ubwamamare, imyaka mike yari afite ndetse n’uburyo umuryango we waje kumenya buhoro buhoro uko wamufasha.

  • Nyuma ya COVID-19, CP John Bosco Kabera yagiye he?

    Nyuma ya COVID-19, CP John Bosco Kabera yagiye he?

    Mu gihe icyorezo cya COVID-19 cyari cyugarije u Rwanda n’isi yose hagati ya 2020 na 2022, Commissioner of Police (CP) John Bosco Kabera yabaye umwe mu bayobozi bagaragaraga cyane mu itangazamakuru, asobanura ingamba zo kwirinda icyorezo ndetse anavuga ku ishyirwa mu bikorwa ry’amabwiriza ya Leta.

    Yamenyekanye cyane mu butumwa bwibutsaga Abanyarwanda kubahiriza gahunda nka “Guma mu Rugo”, kwambara neza agapfukamunwa no kwirinda ibikorwa byashoboraga gukwirakwiza virusi ya COVID-19. Mu kiganiro n’itangazamakuru ndetse no kuri televiziyo, yakundaga gusobanura ko kubahiriza amabwiriza atari amahitamo, ahubwo ari inshingano za buri wese.

    Yakomeje inshingano ze na nyuma ya COVID-19

    Nyuma y’uko icyorezo kigabanutse, CP Kabera yakomeje kuba Umuvugizi wa Polisi y’u Rwanda, akomeza gutangaza amakuru ajyanye n’umutekano, ubukangurambaga bwa Gerayo Amahoro, kurwanya urusaku, ibyaha n’ibindi bikorwa bya Polisi.

    Mu gihe yari akiri muri uwo mwanya, yakomeje no kuvugira Polisi mu bikorwa byo kurwanya amakoraniro atemewe ndetse n’ibindi byaha byakomeje kugaragara nyuma y’icyorezo.

    Yasimbuwe ku mwanya w’Umuvugizi wa Polisi

    Muri Kanama 2023, Polisi y’u Rwanda yatangaje impinduka mu buyobozi, aho ACP Boniface Rutikanga yagizwe Umuvugizi mushya wa Polisi y’u Rwanda asimbuye CP John Bosco Kabera.

    Ubu akora iki?

    Nubwo atakiri Umuvugizi wa Polisi, CP John Bosco Kabera ntiyasezeye muri Polisi y’u Rwanda.

    Yagizwe Commissioner ushinzwe umutekano w’ibikorwaremezo (Infrastructure Security) n’igenzura ry’ibigo by’umutekano byigenga (Private Security Service Providers). Muri izi nshingano, akurikirana ibikorwa by’ibigo by’abacunga umutekano byigenga, umutekano w’ibikorwaremezo by’ingenzi ndetse anakomeza kwitabira ibikorwa bya Polisi n’amahugurwa atandukanye.

    Umwanzuro

    N’ubwo bamwe batekereje ko CP John Bosco Kabera yaba atakigaragara nyuma ya COVID-19, amakuru yemejwe agaragaza ko atigeze ava muri Polisi y’u Rwanda. Ahubwo yavuye ku mwanya w’Umuvugizi wa Polisi ajya mu zindi nshingano zo ku rwego rwo hejuru zirebana n’umutekano w’ibikorwaremezo n’imicungire y’ibigo by’umutekano byigenga, aho akomeje gukorera igihugu.

  • Yasabye gatanya avuga ko umugabo we afite ubwoya bucye ku mubiri, nyamara we yari yifuza umugabo ufite bwinshi

    Yasabye gatanya avuga ko umugabo we afite ubwoya bucye ku mubiri, nyamara we yari yifuza umugabo ufite bwinshi

    Mu buzima bw’abashakanye, hari ibibazo bitandukanye bishobora kuvuka bitewe n’uko umwe cyangwa bombi batagejeje ku wundi ibyo bifuza mbere yo kubana. Kimwe muri ibyo ni ibyo umugore umwe yavuze mu rukiko, aho yashinje umugabo we ko afite ubwoya bucye ku mubiri, ibintu yavuze ko bituma atakimwishimira nk’umugabo.

    Uyu mugore, nk’uko byatangajwe n’ibitangazamakuru byo mu mahanga byakurikiranye urwo rubanza, yavuze ko mbere yo gushyingiranwa atigeze amenya neza uko umugabo we yari ateye ku mubiri, kuko igihe kinini yabaga yambaye imyenda isanzwe. Nyuma yo kubana, ngo yatunguwe no gusanga afite ubwoya bucye cyane ku gituza, ku maboko no ku maguru, nyamara we yari yarifuje umugabo ufite ubwoya bwinshi.

    Yabwiye urukiko ko icyo kibazo cyatumye atakimwumva nk’umuntu umukurura, ndetse ko byagiye bigira ingaruka ku mubano wabo. Yavuze ko yumvaga yarinjiye mu rushako afite ibitekerezo bitandukanye n’ibyo yasanze.

    Ku ruhande rw’umugabo, we yavuze ko atigeze ahisha uko ateye, ahubwo ko atigeze atekereza ko ingano y’ubwoya bwo ku mubiri ishobora kuba ikibazo gikomeye mu rushako. Yongeyeho ko ari imiterere karemano umuntu avukana kandi idashobora kuba impamvu yo gucirwa urubanza cyangwa gutandukana.

    Abahanga mu by’imitekerereze ya muntu bavuga ko gukururwa n’imiterere y’umuntu ari ibintu bisanzwe kandi bitandukana hagati y’abantu. Hari abakunda abantu bafite imisatsi myinshi cyangwa ubwoya bwinshi ku mubiri, mu gihe abandi bo bakunda abafite uruhu rudasamye ubwoya bwinshi. Icyakora, bagaragaza ko iyo ibyo umuntu akunda bitaganiriweho mbere y’ubukwe, bishobora kuvamo kutanyurwa no guterana amagambo nyuma yo kubana.

    Banibutsa ko urukundo rurambye rudakwiye gushingira gusa ku isura cyangwa ku miterere y’umubiri, ahubwo ko rugomba kubakirwaho icyizere, kubahana, gushyikirana no kwakirana uko buri wese yaremwe.

    Iyi nkuru yongeye gukwirakwira ku mbuga nkoranyambaga, aho yateje impaka ndende. Hari abavuze ko buri muntu afite uburenganzira bwo kugira ibyo akunda ku mubiri w’uwo bazabana, mu gihe abandi bagaragaje ko guhindura ikibazo cy’imiterere karemano y’umuntu impamvu yo gusenya urugo bishobora kuba bidakwiye.

    Abasesenguzi b’imibanire y’abashakanye basoza bavuga ko kimwe mu by’ingenzi mbere yo gushyingiranwa ari ukuganira ku byo buri wese yiteze ku wundi, harimo imico, indangagaciro n’ibindi bishobora kugira ingaruka ku mubano, aho kwishingikiriza gusa ku byo umuntu yibwira cyangwa ku byo yifuza.