Author: webrwanda

Akenshi usanga abantu babana nk’umugore n’umugabo cyangwa umusore n’umukobwa bari mu rukundo hari imirongo ngenderwaho biha cyangwa amwe mu mahame bagenderaho kugirango urukundo rwabo rugende neza.

iyo hatabayeho ubwumvikane rero usanga umuriro uhora waka mu ngo cyangwa abakundana bagahora bashwana.

Hano hari urutonde rw’ibintu 8 abashakashatsi basanze atari byiza ko umugore abibwira uwo bashakanye cyangwa umukobwa abibwira umusore bakundana nubwo baba batarabanje kubiganiraho.

1.Kubwira umugabo wawe iby’abandi bantu bfite imbaraga

Bitewe nuko umugabo mu rugo rwe cyangwa umusore aba yumva ko ari umuntu ukomeye imbere y’umukunzi we, si byiza ko uwo bakundana amuganiriza ku bandi bantu yabonye cyangwa bigeze kubana bafite imbaraga kuko ngo bishobora gutuma uyu mugabo yifata nk’aho nta mbaraga afite (yumva ko asuzuguritse).

2.Kubwira umukunzi we ko amusumba mu burebure

Mu miterere y’umugabo, aba yumva ko akomeye mu bintu byose bimukikije kandi agaharanira ishema rye n’igitinyiro.

kuba rero umugore cyangwa umukobwa yabwira uwo bakundana ko amusumba, umugabo ngo yumva ko ari nk’igisebo bityo ngo bikaba atari byiza ko umugore cyangwa umkobwa abimubwira nubwo byaba ari impamo.

3.Kumwumvisha ko arwanyw n’igikoko runaka atakinesha

Ibi ngo bituma umugabo yiyumva ko nta cyo ashoboye kandi yararemanywe ububasha. Ngo si byiza rero ko umugore cyangwa umukobwa abwira uwo bakundana ko atashobora ikintu runaka kuko ahita yumva nta n’ikindi yabasha.

4. Icyampa amaguru nk’ayawe

ibi na byo abagabo n’abasore ngo ntibabikunda kuko bahita bumva ko bafite amaguru nk’ay’abakobwa bityo bakumva bitabanyuze na gato. Abantu b’igitsinagabo rero ngo bumva banyuzwe n’uko bari ariko bakababazwa cyane n’uwashaka kubapfobya cyane cyane mu bijyanye n’urukundo.

5. Uri nka musaza wanjye cyangwa umuvandimwe wanjye

Ubu bushakashatsi bwerekana ko abagore benshi cyangwa abakobwa bakunze kugwa mu ikosa nk’iryo babigira imikino ariko burya ngo si byiza kuko umugabo cyangwa aba ashaka urukundo ku wundi muntu utari mwene wabo.

Ibi rero ngo bituma umuntu yongera gusubira mu masano ndetse ngo akaba yajya ahora no ku rwikekwe mu rukundo rwanyu iyo ubimubwiye kenshi.

6.Kwita umukunzi wawe Sugar Dady

Kugereranya umukunzi wawe na bariya bantu bashuka abana cyangwa abandi bantu ngo bakorane imibonano mpuzabitsina kubera indnke (sugar dady, mummy) , ngo bisa no gukomeretsa ubwonko nubwo ushobora kubivuga wikinira bitewe n’ibyo umukunzi wawe aguha cyangwa akandi kamaro agufitiye.

ibi rero ngo si byiza kuko bishobora no gutuma umukunzi wawe ahagarika impano yakugeneraga bitewe n’ibyo wamubwiye cyangwa wamuvuzeho.

7.Kubwira umukunzi wawe ko afite igitsina gitandukanye n’iby’abandi

Hari abantu bizihirwa bakavuga ibitavugitse kubera ibyishimo cyangwa amarangamutima batewe n’abakunzi babo.

Ibi rero ngo si byiza kuko bishobora gutuma umukunzi wawe yibaza niba hari abandi bafite igitsina gitandikanye n’icye n’aho yababonye.

Ibi byo ngo si byoza na gato kuko ngo bishobora no guhita biteza intonganya mu gihe umugabo cyangwa umusore atabasha kwihangana.

8. Abagabo cyangwa abasore ntibakunda ko abakunzi babo babagereranya n’abandi babonye

Umugabo aho ava akagera ngo aba yumva ko yihagije. Nkuko byagaragaye mu ngingo zavuzwe hejuru, ngo si byiza ko umugore cyangwa umukobwa anenga imikorere y’umugabo we amugereranya n’abandi ahubwo ikiruta ko yamugira inama bari bonyine.

Dr Habineza abishingira ku kuba nko mu gihe biyamamazaga mu matora ya Perezida hari ababajyanye kwiyamamariza mu irimbi abandi bakabakubita kandi ibyo ngo byakorwaga n’abayobozi.

Amatora y’umukuru w’igihugu yabaye muri Nyakanga 2017, ari nabwo iri shyaka rya Green Party riyoborwa na Depite Dr Habineza ryiyamamaje rihanganye na FPR Inkotanyi ndetse n’umukandida wigenga Mpayimana Philippe.

Mu kiganiro yagiranye na Ukwezi TV, Dr Frank Habineza yasobanuye uburyo ishyaka ayobora hari abarifata nk’irirwanya Leta kandi nta ntwaro bakoresha, icyo abantu bakwiye kumva ari uko ritavuga rumwe na FPR kandi ibyo rikoresha bikaba ari ibitekerezo biyunganira hagamijwe guteza imbere igihugu.

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Muri iki kiganiro, yatanze urugero ku nzitizi bahuye nazo mu gihe cy’amatora aho wasangaga abayobozi bamwe babananiza abandi bakabafata nabi bigatuma n’abaturage bashobora kwibeshya ko haje kwiyamamaza abanzi b’igihugu.

Depite Frank Habineza ati : “Hari n’abadutwaye no mu marimbi, tujya kwiyamamariza mu irimbi hariya mu karere ka Nyagatare, hari n’ahandi mu karere ka Kirehe batujyanye mu ishyamba bajya kudukubitirayo, baduteza abana badutera amabuye, hari n’ahandi twageze dusanga abaturage bose babakuye mu mujyi tujya kwiyamamaza muri sitade nta muntu n’umwe urimo.”

Muri iki kiganiro, Dr Frank Habineza yanasobanuye byinshi birimo uko yahoze muri FPR akaza kuyivamo n’urugamba yarwanye nyuma yaho ngo ishyaka yaje gushinga we na bagenzi be ryemerwe, asobanura ibijyanye n’abayobozi b’ishyaka rye mu karere ka Nyamasheke no mu Ntara y’Uburengerazuba barimo ufunzwe n’uwakubiswe n’umupolisi, ashimangira ibyo ishyaka rye rimaze gukora byahinduye ubuzima bw’abanyarwanda batandukanye n’ibindi.

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