Gukunda ni kimwe mu bintu byiza kandi bitangaje bishobora kuba ku muntu. Bikaba agahebuzo iyo ukunzwe n'uwo umutima wawe wihebeye kuko bihindura ubuzima bwawe umunezero uhoraho.
Ni nayo mpamvu itariki ya 14 Gashyantare, umunsi ubusanzwe Kiliziya Gatolika yageneye Mutagatifu Valentin (Saint Valentin) ufatwa nk'umurinzi w'abakundana, warenze imbibi z'idini utangira kuzirikanwa no kwizihizwa na buri wese ufite uwo bakundana.
Ni umunsi abantu bato n'abakuru, abaroheje n'abakomeye usanga bongera kubwirana amagambo meza y’urukundo ari na ko bahererekanya impano nk'uburyo bwo kongera kugaragarizanya agaciro buri umwe afite mu buzima bwa mugenzi we.
Hari bamwe ariko usanga kumenya impano ikwiriye bagenera abakunzi babo biba ingorabahizi, ari nayo mpamvu twifashishije imbuga zitandukanye zirimo El Crema tubakusanyiriza urutonde rw'ibintu 15 byoroheje waha umukunzi wawe kuri uyu munsi:
1. Chocolat
Niba uri umusore ukaba wibaza impano waha umukunzi wawe kandi yoroheje bitewe n'ubushobozi ufite, hari ubwoko butandukanye bwa 'chocolat' ushobora kumugurira kandi umutima we ukishima.
Kugira ngo birusheho kumuryohera ushobora kuyiherekeresha indabo, ukaba wabimushyikiriza wowe ubwawe cyangwa ukamutumaho umuntu.
2. Divayi
Nta cyashimisha umukunzi wawe kuri uyu munsi nk'impano ya divayi by'umwihariko itukura dore ko nayo ubwayo isanzwe ikoreshwa mu kwizihiza urukundo. Ushobora kumuha icupa rifunze neza, cyangwa ukaba wayikoresha mu guherekeza amafunguro mwasangiye haba mu rugo cyangwa aho mwasohokeye.
3. Imyenda
Niba uteganya kuza gusohokana n'umukunzi wawe kuri uyu munsi mugasangira mwishimira urukundo ruri hagati yanyu, ushobora kumutungura ukamugurira ikanzu ari buze kuba yambaye.
Uretse kuba ibi bimurinda guhangayika ashakisha umwenda ari buze kwambara ukakunyura, ni n'uburyo bwo kumwereka ko urukundo umukunda rwaguhaye ubushobozi bwo kumenya ibimubereye.
4. Serivisi za 'spa'
Mbere yo gutekereza gahunda zirebana no gusangira, ushobora gutungura umukunzi wawe ukamusaba ko mujyana aho batangira serivisi zo kuruhura umubiri 'spa'. By'umwihariko ariko mushobora gusaba gukorerwa 'massage' igenewe abakundana, aho muyikorerwa mu cyumba kimwe kandi giteguye mu buryo bunogeye ijisho.
5. Inkweto
Si umusore cyangwa umugabo gusa ushobora gutungura umukunzi we akamugurira impano y'umwambaro, kuko n'umugore ashobora kubikora ariko noneho akaba yamugurira inkweto.
Niba wibaza impano yoroheje kandi itagoye kubona waha umukunzi wawe uyu munsi, nyarukira mu iduka umugurire inkweto ariko wibande cyane ku zo ashobora kwambara mu bihe bisanzwe nka 'sneakers'.
6. Isaha
Ku rutonde rw'impano zoroheje kandi zishobora kuboneka mu byiciro bitandukanye bitewe n'amikoro yawe ntihaburamo isaha. Isaha uretse kuba ari kimwe mu by'ibanze ku muntu wese uzi kandi ukunda kurimba, ni n'uburyo bwo kwibutsa umukunzi wawe kujya azirikana kubahiriza igihe mu byo akora byose.
7. Ububiko bw'udukoresho akunda gukenera
Niba umusore mukundana cyangwa umugabo wawe ari umuntu ukunda kubika utuntu twose ku murongo, impano yoroheje ushobora kumugenera kuri uyu munsi w'abakundana ni agasandaku ashobora kubikamo udukoresho tw'ingenzi nk'amasaha, imikufi n'impeta.
8. Umubavu
Umubavu ni imwe mu mpano waha umukunzi wawe waba uri umugore cyangwa uri umugabo akishima ndetse akongera kwibuka ko umukunda kandi iteka uhora umuzirikana.
9. Ikawa n'agakombe kayo
Niba uzi neza ko umukunzi wawe akunda ikawa byahebuje, ushobora kumutungura kuri uyu munsi wa Saint Valentin ukaba wamugurira iyo azajya yitekera ndetse n'agakombe ashobora kuyitwaramo agiye nko ku kazi cyangwa ahandi. Kugira ngo ariko birusheho kumushimisha, ushobora gusaba aho wayiguriye akaba aribo bayimugezaho.
10.Ibikoresho byifashishwa mu kwisiga ibirungo
Kuri uyu munsi ntacyashimisha umugore cyangwa umukobwa mukundana nk'impano y'ibikoresho byifashishwa mu kwisiga ibirungo ndetse byaba na ngombwa nabyo ukaba wabyongeramo. Ibi kandi biroroshye kuko ababicuruza bashobora kugufasha kumuhitiramo ibyiza bakurikije uruhu rwe, cyangwa nawe ukaba wagendera ku byo asanzwe akoresha.
11 .Amaherena n'umukufi
Kuri uyu munsi kandi ushobora gutungura umukunzi cyangwa umugore wawe ukaba wamuha impano y'amaherena n'umukufi bijyanye. By'akarusho kandi ushobora kujya kubikoresha aho wahitamo ko bijyana n'umudali ushushe mu buryo bugize icyo busobanuye mu buzima bwanyu.
12. Ikofi
Mu zindi mpano zoroheje ushobora kugurira umukunzi wawe kuri Saint Valentin hazamo n'ikofi ashobora gutwaramo ibyangombwa bye, amakarita ya banki, aha ushobora no guhitamo inini yajyamo na telefoni igendanwa.
13. Ikanzu yo kujyana mu bwogero
Iyi nayo n'indi mpano yoroheje buri wese ashobora guha umukunzi we kuri uyu munsi ikaba yamushimisha ndetse ikajya ituma afata umwanya wo kumutekerezaho dore ko buri uko ayambaye agiye cyangwa avuye mu bwogero yajya ahita amwibuka.
14. Imyenda yo kwambara mwaruhutse
Niba utarigeze ubona umwanya uhagije wo gutekereza ku mpano waha umukunzi wawe kuri uyu munsi, ushobora kumugurira imyenda yo kwambara igihe yaruhutse izwi nka 'Joggers'. Aha ushobora kumuhitiramo imeze kimwe n'iyawe ku buryo igihe mwembi mutagiye mu mirimo mwatemberana muyambaye.
15.Ifunguro ryihariye
Kabone n’ubwo mwaba mubana cyangwa musangira inshuro nyinshi mu cyumweru, nta mpano ikomeye yaruta kuba watungura umukunzi wawe kuri uyu munsi mugasangira ifunguro riteguye ku buryo bwihariye kandi mukarisangirira ahantu hatuje hateguye mu buryo bugaragaza urukundo mu mpande zose.
Yaba umugore cyangwa umugabo ashobora gutegurira umukunzi we ifunguro ryihariye, aho bashobora kurifatira mu rugo cyangwa ahandi hantu yahisemo.
Duhereye hano mu karere k’ibiyaga bigari, couple y’umuhanzi w’icyamamare Diamond Platnumz n’umuherwekazi Zari Hassan, iri mu zaciye ibintu mu myaka yashize. Ku itariki nk’iyi mu 2018 Zari yatunguye benshi ubwo yatangazaga ko yatandukanye n’uyu muhanzi amuziza kumuca inyuma akaryamana na Hamisa Mobetto yanahise anatera inda. Ibi yabitangaje aciye kuri Instagram ye aho yashyizeho ubutumwa burebure busobanura impamvu yashwanye na Diamond.
Abakurikiranye imyidagaduro mpuzamahanga kuva kera, baribuka urukundo rw’icyamamarekazi Jennifer Lopez n’umuraperi w’umuherwe Sean Combs wamamaye nka Diddy. Aba bombi batangiye gukundana mu mu 1998 maze baca ibintu i Hollywood. 
Bimaze kumenyerwa kubona abakinnyi ba filime bahuriye muri filime bakina bakundana bikarangira banakundanye mu buzima busanzwe. Ibi ni byo byabaye kuri Sophia Bush na Austin Nichols bakinnye bakundana muri filime y’uruhererekane yakunzwe ya ‘One Tree Hill’. Bombi batangiye gukundana mu 2009 batandukana ku munsi nk’uyu mu 2012.
Umuhanzikazi akaba n’umwanditsi w’indirimbo Hillary Duff uri mubamaze igihe mu muziki wo muri Amerika, yarushinze n’umugabo we wa mbere Mike Comrie mu 2010 baza gutangaza ko batandukanye ku munsi wa Saint Valentin mu 2015 babinyujije mu itangazo bashyize kuri Instagram. Aba bombi basinye gatanya mu 2016 nyuma y’umwaka batandukanye.
Abandi bakinnyi ba filime bakundanye nyuma yo guhurira muri filime ni Milo Ventimiglia na Hayden Panettiere bakinanye filime y’uruhererekane yitwa ‘Heroes’. Batangiye gukundana mu 2007 baza gutandukana ku munsi w’abakundana mu 2013.Â
Icyamamarekazi muri Sinema, Regina King wamamaye muri filime nka ‘Watchmen’, ‘Friday’ n’zindi, yatangiye gukundana na Malcom Jamal mu 2008 batandukana kuri Saint Valentin ya 2013. Aba bombio ntibigeze bavuga impamvu yatumye batandukana gusa byavugwaga ko Malcom yaba yarabyaranye n’undi mugore.
Mbere y’uko umuhanzi Nick Jonas arushinga n’umuhindekazi Priyanka Chopra, yabanje kukanyuzaho n’umuhanzikazi Delta Goodrem wo muri Australia. Bombi bakundanye igihe gito dore ko batandukanye kuri Saint Valentin ya 2012 bamaze umwaka umwe gusa bakundana.
Abakinnyi ba filime Jude Law na Sienna Miller bari mu baciye ibintu mu Bwongereza mu gihe cy’imyaka 7 bakundanye ndetse banibanira nk’umugore n’umugabo. Baje gutandukana kuri Saint Valentin ya 2014 aho Sienna yanditse ku mbuga nkoranyambaga ko yafashe umwanzuro wo kureka Jude Law nyuma yo kumufata amuca inyuma.





































